Sunday, January 4, 2015

Discovering and Developing Abstinence - Sila. - Part 1.


There are 10 great sins one has to avoid, stop doing them, in order to have a better worldly life as well as to practice Bhavana.



But many of the practitioners of Bhavana, may not agree to some of the 'Great Sins' needed to be avoided, as a pre-condition to the practice of Bhavana. But then, another partitioner would find this 'Abstinence' from the 'Sins' is not enough in themselves, to develop one's mind in the Bhavana. The Practitioner of the Bhavana would find more things to be avoided, more things to be 'Abstained' from, as he develops himself in the practice.



First let us examine, the Great Sins, and to how to avoid or abstain from them, when practicing. Then, let s look, how one himself finding that more things have to be avoided or abstained from, in order to develop one's mind.



Quote:



Now what is unskillful? (1). Taking life is unskillful, (2). taking what is not given is unskillful, (3). sexual misconduct is unskillful, (4). lying is unskillful, (5). abusive speech is unskillful, (6). divisive tale-bearing is unskillful, (7). idle chatter is unskillful. (8). Covetousness is unskillful, (9). ill will is unskillful, (10). wrong views are unskillful. These things are termed unskillful.



And what are the roots of what is unskillful? Greed is a root of what is unskillful, aversion is a root of what is unskillful, delusion is a root of what is unskillful. These are termed the roots of what is unskillful.



And what is skillful? Abstaining from taking life is skillful, abstaining from taking what is not given... from sexual misconduct... from lying... from abusive speech... from divisive tale-bearing... abstaining from idle chatter is skillful. Lack of covetousness... lack of ill will... right views are skillful. These things are termed skillful.



And what are the roots of what is skillful? Lack of greed is a root of what is skillful, lack of aversion is a root of what is skillful, lack of delusion is a root of what is skillful. These are termed the roots of what is skillful.





Translated from the Pali by Thanissaro Bhikkhu.



The End Of The Quote.



When we come the these sins, i.e. (1). Taking life is unskillful, (2). taking what is not given is unskillful, (4). lying is unskillful,  there is no question, that one has to abstain from them. 

Then what is meant by, (3). sexual misconduct is unskillful ?

If one is having legal sex, then it is not considered as a sin, as in having sex with one's wife.



Though, Legal sex is not considered, as an obstacle to one's worldly activities as a lay person, and not termed as a sin, but when it comes to the practice of Bhavana, one has to abstain from all the activities of Sex, including legal sex, and even including the mere thinking of the same. Hence, when a lay person goes to practice of Bhavana in a Buddhist temple, on a full moon day (Uposatha Day), he has to take the Eight Precept (Sila), of 'Abstaining', thus avoiding sex in full, instead of the Five Precepts a lay parson would follow, in his normal worldly life, as one has to Practice Bhavana on that day. If we compare the relevant precepts regarding the sex, in both instances, it would become much clearer:-



In the Five Precepts, it is the third Precept:



3. Kamesu micchacara veramani sikkhapadam samadiyami

I undertake the precept to refrain from sexual misconduct.



In the Eight Precepts, it is the third Precept:



3. Abrahmacariya veramani sikkhapadam samadiyami

I undertake the precept to refrain from sexual activity.



So, one must understand that, **refraining from sexual misconduct.** is very different from, refraining from sexual activity.



Even if one has mere thinking on sex, then he would not be practicing Bhavana, hence, he has to refrain from all the activities of sex, in order to practice. This one has to find himself, in the Bhavana practice itself.



In The Eight Precept a lay person would take on such an occasion, this 3rd precept of abrahmacariya is explained as follows:-



Quote:



3. "Bhikkhus. Ariyan disciples in this Religion reflect thus:



"'All arahants, for as long as life lasts, have given up that which is an obstacle to the Brahma-faring (abrahma-cariya). Their practice is like that of a Brahma. They are far from sexual intercourse, which is a practice of lay people.'



"All of you have given up that which is an obstacle to the Brahma-faring and behave like a Brahma. Your behavior is far from sexual intercourse. For all of this day and night, in this manner, you will be known as having followed the arahants, and the Uposatha will have been observed by you. This is the third factor of the Uposatha."









translated from the Pali by Ñanavara Thera and Bhikkhu Kantasilo



End Of The Quote.



This situation one has to find out for himself, as many practitioners, try to justify having sex, as not an obstacle to the practice of Bhavana, which I thinking is driven by the sexual urge itself, where one's mind deceiving oneself, otherwise, one would end up as a continuous practitioner, instead of become an attainer of Samadi.

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